Attachment Help for Foster Parents
A child’s attachment to a primary caregiver is crucial for her mental health both as a child and as an adult. Attachment is the process of forming emotional bonds between parent and child. Those bonds must be a two-way street: just as the child must attach to the primary caregiver, the parent must also attach to the child. That is sometimes hard for foster parents to do because they think their role in the child’s life is temporary or the child’s behavior makes them difficult to automatically love. Nonetheless, it is important for foster parents to help their child attach and trust that their needs will be met.
Creating a Family has resources, supported by research and experienced therapists, for helping foster parents and kinship families help the children in their care. A few we think you will find particularly helpful are:
- Talking With Our Kids About Their Losses During Co-Vid 19 Shutdowns (blog post, from our CoVid-19 series)
- How to do Connected Parenting While Quarantined (1 hr. radio show w/expert, from our CoVid-19 series)
- Using This Time of Shutdown to Develop Resiliency in our Children and our Family (1 hr. radio show w/expert, from our CoVid-19 series)
- Beginner’s Guide to TBRI (guest blog post)
- Attachment 101 (1 hr. radio show w/ expert)
- Fun & Simple Ways to Develop Attachment (1 hr. radio show w/ expert)
- 6 Easy Ways to Create Attachment in Foster Care/Adoption from Dr. Karyn Purvis (factsheet)
- Suggested Books on Attachment for Foster Parents
Scroll to the bottom of this page to see the resources we have on attachment help for foster parents in the form of blogs/articles, radio shows/podcasts, tip sheets, fact sheets, and expert Q & A’s.
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