Domestic Infant Adoption
Domestic infant adoption, also known as baby adoption, domestic adoption, birth mother relinquishment adoption, and sometimes private adoption, is the most commonly known form of adoption in the US.
It is possible to adopt a baby in the US using either an adoption agency or an adoption attorney. In most infant adoptions in the US, the expectant mother (or couple) chooses the adoptive parent or couple for her child. The vast majority of baby adoptions in the US are open.
It is also possible to adopt through the foster care system, although few infants are available for adoption from the foster system. International adoption is also an option, but the youngest children available are usually around 2 years old.
Check out this CreatingaFamily.org graphic resource, Quick Comparison Chart for the Different Types of Adoptions or listen to this 1 hr. CreatingaFamily.org podcast, How to Adopt in 2023.
The average adoption cost from an adoption agency ranges typically from $25,00 – $40,000. Some adoption agencies have a sliding fee scale where adoption costs are based on your income. An independent adoption through an adoption attorney usually costs in the range of $35,000 to $40,000.
See the CreatingaFamily.org resource page, Cost of Adoption in the US, which breaks down the cost by type of adoption and analyzes factors that affect the cost.
We suggest you read this blog that addresses how “advertising” for prospective birth mothers can turn them into a commodity. CreatingaFamily.org has many resources to help you find prospective birth mothers. These will get you started, but check out the many more resources at the icons at the bottom of this page.
Adoptive parents often feel a lot of pressure to make the perfect profile book to be chosen. While there is no such thing as perfect, CreatingaFamily.org has many resources to help you prepare your adoptive parent profile and know what to include and leave out. These radio shows, fact sheets, blogs, videos, and expert Q & A’s can be found by clicking the icons at the bottom of this page. Here is a sample of what you will find:
- Preparing an Adoptive Parent Profile (video)
- Creating Your Adoptive Parent Profile (article)
- How To Create a Compelling Adoption Profile (1 hr. CreatingaFamilyEd.org online course w/ certificate of completion available)
CreatingaFamily.org has many additional resources on domestic infant adoption. A few recent ones we think you will find particularly helpful are:
- Adoption in the US: How Many? How Much? How Long? (article, updated annually)
- Adoption Tax Credit Guide 2022 (article, updated annually)
- What is a Home Study? Why Do I Need One? (article)
- Making Friends with Adults of Your Child’s Race or Ethnicity (article)
- The Impact of Fostering & Adoption on Kids Already in the Home (1 hr. podcast w/ expert)
- Picky Eating and Other Food Issues (1 hr. podcast w/ expert)
- 2022 Adoption Tax Credit (annual 1 hr. podcast w/ experts)
Many more CreatingaFamily.org podcasts, articles, and fact sheets on domestic infant adoption can be found by clicking on the icons below.
Sources: CreatingaFamily.org podcasts with experts, Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, National Council for Adoption
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