Books on Fetal Alcohol Syndrome for Adoptive Parents

Books about FAS

Damaged Angels: An Adoptive Mother’s Struggle to Understand the Tragic Toll of Alcohol in Pregnancy

Damaged Angels: An Adoptive Mother’s Struggle to Understand the Tragic Toll of Alcohol in Pregnancy by Bonnie Buxton – Part heartfelt memoir, part practical guide, Damaged Angels recounts Bonnie Buxton’s struggles to raise her adopted daughter Colette, whom she didn’t realize was afflicted with fetal alcohol disorder. Her book also offers guidance to parents who have children with FASD. This was a sad book but provides valuable information to parents trying to navigate the world of FASD. At times it was hard to slog through, but the information provided made it worth the effort.

Understanding Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder

Understanding Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder: A Guide to FASD for Parents, Carers and Professionals by Maria Catterick and Liam Curran – A useful introduction to Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD). Written by two FASD experts, it describes how alcohol can harm the fetus and disrupt development, and explains how FASD affects individuals at different stages of their lives. With the aid of simple, illustrative diagrams, photographs and charts, it shows how you can identify FASD and provides accessible and informative advice for parents or carers on how children, young people and adults with FASD can be best supported.

The Mystery of Risk

The Mystery of Risk: Drugs, Alcohol, Pregnancy, and the Vulnerable Child by Ira J. Chasnoff, MD – Combining cutting-edge information from medicine, neuroscience, and child psychology, The Mystery of Risk details the detrimental effects of a prenatal exposure to drugs and alcohol while in the womb. Chasnoff posit that many of the learning and behavior problems seen in children—from poor school performance to patterns of impulsivity often diagnosed as ADHD—are both treatable and preventable, and Chasnoff suggests behavior management and treatment techniques that will help mitigate the effects of prenatal exposure. You can listen to several interviews with Dr. Chasnoff on the Creating a Family Radio Show/Podcast.

The Broken Cord

The Broken Cord by Michael Dorris – The poignant account of a single dad grappling with his adopted son’s FASD. Dorris’s son Adam has significant developmental delays when he was adopted at three-years old, but Dorris believed that nurture and love would prevail, but it didn’t. Dorris chronicles the frustration of day-to-day living with Adam, admits his rage at his own inability to make his son’s life fuller and eloquently describes moments of pride, hope and–always–love. The book was written in the late 90s, before much was known on how to help kids with FASD, and is not necessarily representative of the prognosis of children with FASD in the day and age.

Fantastic Antone Succeeds: Experiences in Educating Children with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome

Fantastic Antone Succeeds: Experiences in Educating Children with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome by Judith Kleinfeld – Based on research done in Alaska, which has rates of FAS 6 to 18 times higher than the national average, Fantastic Antone Succeeds describes concrete, specific ways of educating children with fetal alcohol syndrome/fetal alcohol effects (FAS/FAE). It communicates an optimistic message that is both true and appealing: with the right education, delivered by a nurturing individual in the home or in the school, many alcohol-affected children thrive. The book consists of chapters written by psychologists, teachers, and birth and adoptive parents of children with FASD. The book also includes lists of important resources, organizations to contact, and descriptions of effective classroom practices for teachers. Without minimizing the seriousness of FAS/FAE and the first priority prevention, this book provides practical tools and strategies that can help alcohol-affected individuals and their families lead happier, more productive lives.

Fantastic Antone Grows Up: Adolescents and Adults with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome

Fantastic Antone Grows Up: Adolescents and Adults with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome by Judith Kleinfeld – A field guide to life with an adolescent or young adult with fetal alcohol syndrome/effects. Adolescence is a trying time for young people and their families under the best of circumstances. For the challenged and challenging young people with FAS/E, the circumstances as they begin maturing are never the best. In this sequel to Fantastic Antone Succeeds, young people with FAS/E and their caregivers report on their experiences coping with the problems of adolescence and young adulthood and candidly convey which techniques worked and which did not during the difficult passages of the teenage years and beyond. Section one defines what success means for for adolescents and adults with FAS/E. Section two discusses strategies that work in areas such as counseling, education, sexuality, trouble with the law, and independent living, and section three covers what families need from the community, including innovative programs that help individuals with FAS/E, and how to get a diagnosis at adolescence.

The Best I Can Be

The Best I Can Be: Living with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome or Effects by Liz Kulp and Jodee Kulp – Liz Kulp’s birth mother drank while she was pregnant and Liz was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. In The Best I Can Be, Liz and her adopted mother Jodee tell her story. Liz’s story is told in her own words on index cards, while the rest of the book is written by her mother, telling their family’s journey after adopting Liz and the struggle to find a proper diagnosis. The book is contains lists of resources for families going through a similar journey. A invaluable resource for anyone who has a child with FAS in their life.

Trying Differently Rather Than Harder

Trying Differently Rather Than Harder: Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders by Diane Malbin, MSW – This book provides a readable, narrative discussion of the neurobehavioral approach for working effectively with children and adolescents with FASD. It focuses on understanding behaviors differently – primary and secondary learning and behavioral characteristics. One section explores the most common behavioral symptoms by providing case examples, interventions, and improved outcomes. The neurobehavioral approach is illustrated by stories of how alternative interventions lead to less frustration. Trying Differently Rather than Harder is by far the gold standard — a tremendous resource for every adoptive parent.

Recognizing and Managing Children With Fetal Alcohol Syndrome/Fetal Alcohol Effects

Recognizing and Managing Children With Fetal Alcohol Syndrome/Fetal Alcohol Effects: A Guidebook by Brenda McCreight, MD – This guidebook to fetal alcohol syndrome/fetal alcohol effects (FAS/FAE) offers practical advice and information for dealing with its lifelong effects on behavior and learning. It covers the historical, medical, and social aspects of FAS, and details the common behavioral characteristics associated with the condition. Taking a developmental approach, the book offers specific behavioral management techniques to be used with children with FAS from infancy through late adolescence. I’ve talked with parents that say this book was the most helpful of any they read. It provides practical and easy guidance for parents to use to help their child as they age. Although Dr. McCreight doesn’t sugar coat living with FAS, she also isn’t overly pessimistic. It’s a hard balance to strike and she does it well. There is also help for classroom teachers.

The Silent Epidemic: A Child Psychiatrist's Journey Beyond Death Row

The Silent Epidemic: A Child Psychiatrist’s Journey Beyond Death Row by Susan D. Rich, MD, MPH – Prenatal alcohol exposure is the leading preventable cause of birth defects, neurodevelopmental disorders, and intellectual disability. In The Silent Epidemic, Dr. Susan Rich provides insight into the prevalence of neurodevelopmental disorder associated with prenatal alcohol exposure (ND-PAE) among juveniles accused of violent crimes. She also provides hope: with appropriate diagnosis and treatment, affected individuals can avoid a lifetime of lost potential from substance use disorders, incarceration, unemployment, and homelessness.

Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder

Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder by Ellen Rodger and Rosie Gowell (ages 10-14) – One of the most difficult parts of having a child with FASD is explaining to your child why they are different. Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder, part of the Understanding Mental Health series, provides teens and tweens with a useful overview of the mental, behavioral, and physical impairments of FASD, as well as new research, treatments and methods for managing behavioral issues. It also includes a chapter aimed at the siblings of children with FASD. A fantastic resource for any family affected by FASD.

Fetal Alcohol Syndrome: A Guide for Families and Communities

Fetal Alcohol Syndrome: A Guide for Families and Communities by Dr. Ann Streissguth – This is a gem of a book and a great place to start researching FAS/FASD. Dr. Streissguth is a leading researcher in the field of FAS. As those of you who have read my book or website know, I love to read and report on the scientific research in adoption. The problem with this research is that it is often too theoretical for practical application by those of us in the trenches–AKA the parents. This book solves that problem nicely. It is a practical, easy to read guide for parents and professionals based on the author’s many years of research. Get this book if you are concerned about adopting a child with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder.

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