I didn’t find this site until after my family was built, but even after going through years of infertility and the process of adopting through foster care (twice!) there is so much healing that I found I needed. That was what brought me here. What I found was that I gained the most healing by helping others. By reading posts that others wrote, I was able to see that the issues of infertility, adoption and foster care didn’t affect only me. It brought me out of world and into a world where others were struggling with many of the same feelings and questions that I had. By being able to share some of my experiences and some of my feelings, in the hopes of helping others find a sense of peace, it’s been able to help me find that peace myself. Thank you for that – this is my go-to site and I have been sharing it with friends and family members who also struggle with infertility or are touched by adoption.